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He Doesn’t Take Me Seriously! Follow These Useful Tips If You Want Your Man to Take You Seriously

He Doesn’t Take Me Seriously! Follow These Useful Tips If You Want Your Man to Take You Seriously


Some guys won’t ever take you seriously, and it has nothing to do with you. There’s simply a personality type that is incapable of showing respect for anyone, and you shouldn’t waste your time trying to get this snobby guy to take you seriously.

However, if you have a good guy on your hands, here’s how you can insure that you don’t give off the wrong vibe and always keep his respect.

Don’t Get His Attention the Wrong Way

If you are attempting to let a guy know that you’re interested, don’t go about it in a way that cheapens you.

It may work to get his attention if you wear skimpy outfits and talk brazenly about sex, but this kind of behavior won’t win his respect in the long-run.

Keep Your Mystery

Instead of throwing your sexuality out there blatantly, opt instead to keep your mystery and thus keep a great deal of your power.

Mystery is a powerful thing, and not immediately giving a raw glimpse into who you are as a sexual being is not only part of being a lady, but it’s a key part of keeping his interest and making sure he takes you seriously.

A Guy’s Mental Categories

It isn’t really by choice, but for some reason guy’s have a tendency to automatically log women they meet and place them into very distinct “category” in their brains.

This happens very quickly, and your category can seldom be reversed, so make sure your first impression is a quality one and stick with it. A guy will place you into categories possibly without even knowing it; in your head you will be filed away as “potential sex buddy,” “buddy,” or “potential girlfriend material.”

Don’t Tolerate Disrespect

People who are well-respected and taken very seriously often achieved this by simply demanding the respect they deserve.

If your guy is acting as if he doesn’t take you seriously, put him in his place. Stand up for yourself and be assertive. Acting weak or apologetic and/or trying to change aspects of yourself in order to fulfill his ideals is exactly the type of behavior that will guarantee he does not take you seriously.

You Don’t Need Him to Take You Seriously

It’s important to remember that you will be viewed with more reverence and taken seriously by more people in the long run (and not just your crush), if you make it an unspoken fact that you do not need him to take you seriously.

You don’t really need anyone to take you seriously. What matters is how you view yourself. When you start living with this attitude and your sense of self blossoms, that’s what you won’t have to even worry about this anymore.

Judge Him by the Same Harsh Standards

You can take a hint from the discerning male mentality and judge him with the same categories and standards. Just because you’re single and you have a crush on this guy doesn’t mean that you have to dismiss his negative traits and settle.

It’s healthier for you and beneficial in the long run to be very picky with all potential mates, so view him the same way that he likely views women and be harsh in your judgements if your instincts are guiding you to do so.

You Can’t Control the Conclusion he Comes to

Remember that ultimately, there’s always going to be people that want to put you down and disrespect you. If you’ve acted with your best behavior and demanded respect, then there’s nothing else you can do.

We only have so much control over the way other people view us. The key is to just be the same person and not let it effect you.

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He Doesn’t Take Me Seriously! Follow These Useful Tips If You Want Your Man to Take You Seriously


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